Ok, so I am reading “Think & Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill – a book that Mary Kay Ash herself recommended somewhere along the lines (in her autobiography I am pretty sure).   The first time I tried I could not get through it, this time I am reading it with a girlfriend who owns her own business as well and this time…

the book seems incredible!  Anyway… I wanted to share the following today:

 ”The majority of people who fail to accumulate money sufficient for their needs, are, generally, easily influenced by the “opinions” of others.  They permit the newspapers and the “gossiping” neighbors to do their “thinking” for them.  “Opinions” are the cheapest commodities on earth.  Everyone has a flock of opinions ready to be wished upon anyone who will accept them.  If you are influenced by “opinions” when you reach DECISIONS, you will not succeed in any undertaking, mush less in that of transmuting YOUR OWN DESIRE into money.

If you are influenced by the opinions of others you will have no DESIRE of your own.”

The book goes on…

“You have a brain and mind of your own.  USE IT, and reach your own decisions.  If you need facts or inofrmation from other people, to enable you to reach decisios, as you probably will in amy instances’ acquire these facts or secure the information you need queitly, without disclosing your purpose.

It is characteristic of people who have but a smattering or a veneer of knowledge to try to give the impression thet they have much knowledge.  Such people generally do TOO MUCH talking, and TOO LITTLE listening.  Keep your eyes and ears wide open – and your mouth CLOSED, if you wish to acquire the habit of prompt DECISION.  Those who talk too much do little else.  If you talk more than you listen, you not only deprive yourself of many opportunities to accumulate useful knowledge, but you also disclose your pLANS and PURPOSES to people who will take great delight in defeating you, because they envy you.

Remember, also, that every time you open your mouth in the presence of a person who has an abundance of knowledge, you display to that person, your exact stock of knowledge or your LACK of it.  Genuine wisdom is usually conspicuous thorugh modesty and silence.”

 All CAPS and italics HIS.  Typos … mine.  :)